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TANYA DETRIK





What did BH&G know?
I came to obtain a copy of the March 2020 issue of Better Homes & Gardens (BH&G) magazine somewhat dishonestly. I’ll explain the...
Apr 16, 20203 min read


Chop Wood, Carry Water
Zen Proverb: “Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.” Much has been written about the...
Jun 29, 20193 min read


Touchstones
Often, when couples are together for many years, they start to look like each other. I’ve noticed this, have you? I don’t think this was...
May 23, 20192 min read


On the Breeze
When I walk on the Naugatuck Valley River Trail, I prefer to walk alone— the steady rhythm of my feet hitting pavement becomes a kind of...
May 2, 20192 min read


My Disney Character
I just returned from a trip to Disney World with granddaughter Nora and my daughter. The non-profit, Dream Come True, granted Nora the...
Apr 3, 20192 min read


Dying on the Vine
As a child, I remember discovering my dislike of houseplants. My impression formed when visiting others’ homes, where I cringed at the...
Feb 27, 20192 min read


Double Helix
It’s a new year and most everything is new for me with Wade’s sudden death on December 31st. One minute we were nursing the pain in his...
Jan 31, 20193 min read


A Sign of the Times?
In day-to-day life, I typically have a “live and let live” perspective. This post is about one thing that challenges me. Often that...
Jul 17, 20185 min read


Consider the "Other" in Mother
There are many different types of mothers
May 11, 20183 min read


Oh the People You'll Meet - Part Three
Beautiful, statuesque, almost-30-year-old Jessica Hanson is my most memorable person from the 2017 Planetree International Conference. She b
Nov 27, 20173 min read


Oh, the People You'll Meet - Part Two
When I was planning my speech content for the 2017 Planetree International Conference on Patient-Centered Care in Baltimore, I didn’t...
Oct 31, 20172 min read


Oh, the People You'll Meet - Part One
I spoke and exhibited at the 2017 Planetree International Conference on Patient-Centered Care in Baltimore on October 16th and 17th. I...
Oct 24, 20172 min read


The Power Vested In Me
This past weekend I officiated a wedding-vow renewal ceremony. It was my first. I only became certified two months ago to be able to...
Aug 28, 20172 min read


You Guest It?
It's summer vacation time. One type of vacation is traveling to visit relatives or friends. Sometimes visiting means staying in their...
Aug 3, 20173 min read


I Am Being Framed
I love puns and what I just realized is that it’s the dual or multiple meanings of the words, the play on words, that makes it so easy to...
Jun 14, 20172 min read


When the Shoe is on the Other Foot
How do you react when you encounter someone in a store or restaurant who has an obvious disability? Do you find yourself staring in...
May 18, 20173 min read


Seeing Red
Back a few years ago when I was looking to purchase a car, I was surprised to find that I was attracted to a red car. Red anything is not...
Apr 20, 20172 min read


Navel Gazing
I’ve had some interesting conversations in the past few days, though calling them conversations may be stretching it a bit. I am sharing...
Mar 21, 20172 min read
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